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Also I now avoid anyone with mental illness, yet I've been chastised that is too picky but its just that I grew up in an abusive family one parent who had borderline personality disorder and I'd rather not put myself in the midst of abuse and mental anguish again now that I am an adult and have a choice who I live.
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Maybe it's got something to do with the 55, mostly men who were killed in Vietnam making dating for women in that age group more competitive; ditto for all the other perpetual wars we get ourselves into and their detrimental effect on not only the odds, but the survivors.
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The feeling of desperate - 'Oh my Godhe has not called yet' infatuation usually dissipates quite quickly, but so do the partners when they realize they might be 'free' within a realtionship with me Have several coupled friends who constantly tell me for no particular reason just how "happy" they are in their relationship.
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Secondly, a lot of these women and men are not looking in the right places. If you're looking for a guy who is mentally stimulating, you won't find him in a bar or club. Last, a lot of the people I come into contact with have lost their faith in God or a higher power and faith in themselves. This is HUGE! Having faith will keep you grounded on days when you don't feel like you can go on one more date.
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I've seen 2 therapists, one younger in age and one older. Someonr younger one encourages me too look for men 10 years or more older because older men want younger women, or wait and let God's plan unfold.
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I started out by saying I used to join. I stopped. The isolation and rejection has taken a toll. Am I learning helplessness, or just being realistic. I have lost enjoyment in doing things. It was okay when it was an option, but not it's the norm. I am tired of therapists. I am beginning to think I should just learn to accept being. Something I don't ror to.
Humans are wired to "belong". I simplylooking for someone not crazy to have fun with very human and running out of hope. Hold on. It's a whole different approach. I believe it works and I'm doing it myself Maybe other people can detect this and get intimidated. There are some old geezers out there with golddiggers, but you seem to have a really bad opinion of men if you think they all want.
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